When I was younger I always just *assumed* I would have kids. When I turned 30, in fact. Now: I am scared shitless by it. I.Hate.Change. Even getting a puppy was traumatic. I cried for a week because it was so hard. It is still difficult at times...but I get enjoyment from my pup as well. I fear: -being a working mom(trying to be a good mummy and a career woman) -being tired all the time -losing my self -ruining the great relationship I have with my partner -losing my freedom -ruining a child -being a bad mom -taking an infant to England -stretchmarks ;)
You seem to have struck a nice balance. Granted, this is an outsider speaking. I know some days are harder than others.
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Now: I am scared shitless by it. I.Hate.Change.
Even getting a puppy was traumatic. I cried for a week because it was so hard. It is still difficult at times...but I get enjoyment from my pup as well.
I fear:
-being a working mom(trying to be a good mummy and a career woman)
-being tired all the time
-losing my self
-ruining the great relationship I have with my partner
-losing my freedom
-ruining a child
-being a bad mom
-taking an infant to England
-stretchmarks ;)
You seem to have struck a nice balance. Granted, this is an outsider speaking. I know some days are harder than others.