I think you touched on something significant. The whole thing of turning a simple joy into a fetish that might mutate into weird ways or something.
A parent has a right to kind of set certain limits about toys. (I think I would probably say no to Bratz dolls) For various reasons, but you have to kind of walk this line of not turning it into some obsession.
It is like how my son sometimes grabs my pink high heels or my pink scarf and plays about with them. I highly doubt it is some intense thing about his sexuality. I am guessing he thinks they are pretty fun colors and he likes to play with fun things. Of course the other day he announced that he is a lady and I laughed. I asked him what ladies do and he said, "Get dressed, pink house."
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Date: 2009-07-09 04:17 am (UTC)A parent has a right to kind of set certain limits about toys. (I think I would probably say no to Bratz dolls) For various reasons, but you have to kind of walk this line of not turning it into some obsession.
It is like how my son sometimes grabs my pink high heels or my pink scarf and plays about with them. I highly doubt it is some intense thing about his sexuality. I am guessing he thinks they are pretty fun colors and he likes to play with fun things.
Of course the other day he announced that he is a lady and I laughed. I asked him what ladies do and he said, "Get dressed, pink house."