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gfrancieToday was parent/teacher conferences. I always dread them a bit. I almost feel like I am about to be told off for my performance as a parent. Yeah that is pretty selfish. I know it isn't about me. (but I am always anxious that I am not doing doing enough for my kids. And I want them to be kind polite kids.)
But it was about what I expected.
Miss Biscuit is whip-smart and super enthusiastic and a bit of a day-dreamer. (I predicted this would be her comment. I should have put money on this.) Her teacher didn't have the easiest relationship with Senor Onion so it is interesting to see how she gets along with Miss Biscuit. It is very different. I don't worry about her so much.
Then it was Senor Onion's conference. He is whip-smart and he is doing better at managing his emotions when he becomes anxious/upset when things aren't so easy or unexpected. He has two teachers right now (though one is going on maternity leave so he will have another teacher. So many teachers.) But his main one is getting to know Senor Onion and she likes his sense of humor, and she said she is learning how best to help him. She sees her job as helping him get ready for secondary school in the next two years. She is helping him to regroup and she has a pretty keen insight into how to get into his head. I felt relieved and positive.
...
I was an adult. I invited EVERYONE in the family to Thanksgiving. Including new partners. Because I want to welcome everyone. My brother in law P. declined the invite. (this was after his ex, her bf, and all the kids said yes to coming.) I get why he said he couldn't make it. He is likely not ready to deal with some of this. I wanted to welcome him and his gf. (she is very nice.) Mr. Jenner said, "you did your part." And that is true. My sister in law texted me and said, "I am so sorry I have caused all of this." And I told her that this wasn't her fault. Because it isn't. Family is family for life. And it has been nearly a year so everyone needs to get on board with the new dynamic. And hey more pie for everyone else. I am going to make a great meal and hope everyone enjoys it.
...
Hey, so Saturday Mr. Jenner and I saw Lear with Glenda Jackson at the Old Vic. It was thrilling. Absolutely thrilling. This woman has so much freaking charisma and presence. Some actors rest on what they once were but she doesn't wait for anyone. And the rest of the cast was fun to watch. I felt so lucky to be able to see her on stage. It was a rare an amazing treat.
We were up in the dress circle and had good seats but my back and knees took a bit of a hit. I am not that tall (5'6) but I have long legs and that means my knees were pushing against the seat in front of me. A lot of adjusting of position between my hips/back. Queen of the fidget. Still, what a fun night.
AND when we were at dinner, the server apologized for our main course taking so long. (they knew we had to be at the theatre) We were cool with it. I was sympathetic and told her, "Hey it's Saturday night, it gets crazy and you guys got a million covers." (I think a dupe didn't reach the kitchen.) We were happy when our food arrived. (it was so damn good. But I was also very hungry. Smoked salmon and a truffle cream sauce in pasta for me. Mr. Jenner had pasta with wild boar.) And then they comped our starters and drinks. We didn't even ask. So remember... be nice, and sympathetic and people will do the same for you. A bit timely because on the train up to London I was making my way through a carriage and there were two employees (including a supervisor) who were talking to a woman who was engaged in a little railcard fraud. And she was getting real pissy with them. And kept going on and on at length. The supervisor said, "I can sort this at my discretion but when you display an attitude like that to my colleague I am not inclined to let it go." He realized he was standing in my way and apologized and I said, "hey no problem." and gave him a nice American smile and he smiled back. I hope the rest of his day went okay.
So yes. Theatre, food, trains. What a weekend.
I was able to get out of bed this morning and not be in pain. My back/hips are still fragile so I think it might be a few more days before I can run again. (I am craving it.) But it will be all right.
Now let's face tomorrow.
But it was about what I expected.
Miss Biscuit is whip-smart and super enthusiastic and a bit of a day-dreamer. (I predicted this would be her comment. I should have put money on this.) Her teacher didn't have the easiest relationship with Senor Onion so it is interesting to see how she gets along with Miss Biscuit. It is very different. I don't worry about her so much.
Then it was Senor Onion's conference. He is whip-smart and he is doing better at managing his emotions when he becomes anxious/upset when things aren't so easy or unexpected. He has two teachers right now (though one is going on maternity leave so he will have another teacher. So many teachers.) But his main one is getting to know Senor Onion and she likes his sense of humor, and she said she is learning how best to help him. She sees her job as helping him get ready for secondary school in the next two years. She is helping him to regroup and she has a pretty keen insight into how to get into his head. I felt relieved and positive.
...
I was an adult. I invited EVERYONE in the family to Thanksgiving. Including new partners. Because I want to welcome everyone. My brother in law P. declined the invite. (this was after his ex, her bf, and all the kids said yes to coming.) I get why he said he couldn't make it. He is likely not ready to deal with some of this. I wanted to welcome him and his gf. (she is very nice.) Mr. Jenner said, "you did your part." And that is true. My sister in law texted me and said, "I am so sorry I have caused all of this." And I told her that this wasn't her fault. Because it isn't. Family is family for life. And it has been nearly a year so everyone needs to get on board with the new dynamic. And hey more pie for everyone else. I am going to make a great meal and hope everyone enjoys it.
...
Hey, so Saturday Mr. Jenner and I saw Lear with Glenda Jackson at the Old Vic. It was thrilling. Absolutely thrilling. This woman has so much freaking charisma and presence. Some actors rest on what they once were but she doesn't wait for anyone. And the rest of the cast was fun to watch. I felt so lucky to be able to see her on stage. It was a rare an amazing treat.
We were up in the dress circle and had good seats but my back and knees took a bit of a hit. I am not that tall (5'6) but I have long legs and that means my knees were pushing against the seat in front of me. A lot of adjusting of position between my hips/back. Queen of the fidget. Still, what a fun night.
AND when we were at dinner, the server apologized for our main course taking so long. (they knew we had to be at the theatre) We were cool with it. I was sympathetic and told her, "Hey it's Saturday night, it gets crazy and you guys got a million covers." (I think a dupe didn't reach the kitchen.) We were happy when our food arrived. (it was so damn good. But I was also very hungry. Smoked salmon and a truffle cream sauce in pasta for me. Mr. Jenner had pasta with wild boar.) And then they comped our starters and drinks. We didn't even ask. So remember... be nice, and sympathetic and people will do the same for you. A bit timely because on the train up to London I was making my way through a carriage and there were two employees (including a supervisor) who were talking to a woman who was engaged in a little railcard fraud. And she was getting real pissy with them. And kept going on and on at length. The supervisor said, "I can sort this at my discretion but when you display an attitude like that to my colleague I am not inclined to let it go." He realized he was standing in my way and apologized and I said, "hey no problem." and gave him a nice American smile and he smiled back. I hope the rest of his day went okay.
So yes. Theatre, food, trains. What a weekend.
I was able to get out of bed this morning and not be in pain. My back/hips are still fragile so I think it might be a few more days before I can run again. (I am craving it.) But it will be all right.
Now let's face tomorrow.
