I made the mistake of turning on the television. I came across Oprah and it is a total car accident and I have to watch. She has all of these insane men who are groomzillas. They are obessesed with the details of the wedding,and are planning everything, completely over-riding the wishes of the bride.
I know a lot of women do most of the planning for their weddings...but um...how about compromising things?
I believe when I get married, I would want the imput of the groom.
This one ass-face planned a clam-bake, even though his bride's father is allergic to seafood.
Allergic!
Another guy had a grand entrance on an elephant!
I am trying to grasp the grand asshole-like fervor of these individuals.
What I am having a really hard time dealing with are these stepford wives who smile like they are in a Crest Ad and say, "well it was like hard at first, but he really wants this."
Ack, my head is going to explode. These people are too insane.
I am going to turn off the television. This is too much.
These men are such metrosexuals.
I know a lot of women do most of the planning for their weddings...but um...how about compromising things?
I believe when I get married, I would want the imput of the groom.
This one ass-face planned a clam-bake, even though his bride's father is allergic to seafood.
Allergic!
Another guy had a grand entrance on an elephant!
I am trying to grasp the grand asshole-like fervor of these individuals.
What I am having a really hard time dealing with are these stepford wives who smile like they are in a Crest Ad and say, "well it was like hard at first, but he really wants this."
Ack, my head is going to explode. These people are too insane.
I am going to turn off the television. This is too much.
These men are such metrosexuals.
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Date: 2003-08-25 04:39 pm (UTC)I saw that episode some time ago. Even though most of the guys did not surprise me or even offend me ('cause hey, I think the person who is most gung-ho about the wedding should have the most say ... bride or groom), Mr. Clambake really steamed me! I mean, if someone is going to be allergic, then why bother doing that? Why not just have a huge clambake the next day ... after the father-in-law leaves town? It just seemed really silly, IMO.
On a more serious note, people tend to show their true colors in subtle ways. If the man is not going to budge in light of a physical ailment, what will he be like when you marry him? Fervor is good, but common sense is better.
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Date: 2003-08-25 06:23 pm (UTC)I don't even like it in a woman. It is truly unpleasant.
You are so damn right. I don't see the marriage lasting more then three years.
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Date: 2003-08-25 04:49 pm (UTC)It's nice that he does help me with the planning. He has gone with me to almost every single vendor interview we've had. (except a couple for the flowers). He really does want to help me with the planning and we both decide who we like the best. I think it's best that way. Then we know we are both happy.
Some people are just crazy control freaks.
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Date: 2003-08-25 06:24 pm (UTC)I would think that two people would want equal imput and compromise into something like that.
It sounds like you are both doing this together.
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Date: 2003-08-25 09:55 pm (UTC)Groomzilla is ok to defile though.
Thus concludeth Kathleen trying to control colloquial use of words. :}
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Date: 2003-08-25 11:49 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-08-26 08:25 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-08-26 10:38 am (UTC)I may have a stroke.